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Tess Holliday shares tearful selfie: 'This is the reality of being a mom'

The model and fiancé Nick Holliday welcomed son Bowie in June.

By Annie Martin
Tess Holliday (R) with fiancé Nick Holliday and son Bowie on February 19. Photo by Tess Holliday/Instagram
Tess Holliday (R) with fiancé Nick Holliday and son Bowie on February 19. Photo by Tess Holliday/Instagram

Feb. 28 (UPI) -- Tess Holliday shared a tearful selfie this week after a long night with her son Bowie.

The 31-year-old model posted the candid photo of herself crying on Instagram to raise awareness of the challenges facing working moms.

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"This is the reality of being a mom. I've been up since 3 am, & every time I get Bowie to sleep & try to lay him down, he wakes up. He is teething & has no clue I have to work today," Holliday wrote to her 1.4 million followers.

"Most days I drink my coffee & smile at every little thing he does thinking it's the best thing in the world, but not today. I've been crying for nearly two hours, & I'm crying as I write this. I've reached my limit, exceeded it to be honest," she confessed.

"My confidence has taken a blow with this birth & it wasn't until this morning I realized why. The pressure of 'looking good' for a living is too much today," she added. "As a working mom in an industry that's as critical as mine, where is the line? The balance? The compassion? Is any career understanding when you show up at negative 10% because your kids wouldn't let you sleep & you want to hide under your covers and cry? Not many."

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"I hope one day that changes & society views mothers as the flawed human beings that we are that are just trying to keep our [expletive] together like everyone else. #effyourbeautystandards #workingmoms #disruptperfectmomsyndrome," the star concluded.

Holliday and fiancé Nick Holliday welcomed son Bowie Juniper in June. The model, who is also mom to 10-year-old son Rylee from a previous relationship, frequently posted baby bump photos during her second pregnancy despite criticism.

"I'm not the first plus size women in the public eye to have a baby & share it with the world, & I certainly won't be the last," she wrote in April.

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"I'm part of a small minority that's telling you it's okay to not have a perfect baby bump, or not show at all, to be plus size and have a healthy child, & most importantly to find a health care provider that doesn't shame you about your size," the star added.

Holliday, a size 22, signed with the Curves division of Milk Model Management in 2015. She is known for her work with Torrid and H&M and has also modeled for Benefit Cosmetics and Sea by Monif C.

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