Frankie Santiago, 27, was charged with harassment and other counts for allegedly stalking former boyfriend Edward Sonderling, a 53-year-old investment banker who apparently had turned his attentions to another woman, the New York Post said.
The Post said the couple had been in a relationship involving sexual domination of Santiago by Sonderling.
Sources told the Post Santiago was given an "adjournment in contemplation of dismissal" ruling last month.
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