Kara Tolmie and her son Gavin, 8, of East Setauket, NY look at a book of names of those killed on 9/11. Kara's sister in law Jill Ann Metzler was among almost 3000 killed. Photo was taken at the 9/11 Memorial during ceremony marking the 12th Anniversary of the attacks on the World Trade Center in New York,Wednesday, Sept. 11, 2013. UPI/David Handschuh//POOL