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Hilaria Baldwin loves stepdaughter Ireland 'as much' as her kids

By Annie Martin
Hilaria Baldwin (R), pictured with Alec Baldwin, explained how her relationship with Ireland Baldwin is "so successful." File Photo by Jason Szenes/UPI
1 of 3 | Hilaria Baldwin (R), pictured with Alec Baldwin, explained how her relationship with Ireland Baldwin is "so successful." File Photo by Jason Szenes/UPI | License Photo

April 19 (UPI) -- Hilaria Baldwin says she loves stepdaughter Ireland Baldwin "as much" as her biological kids.

The 35-year-old explained in an Instagram post Thursday why her relationship with Ireland, her husband Alec Baldwin's 23-year-old daughter with Kim Basinger, has been "so successful."

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"I love my stepdaughter as much as I love my biological children and I become a mommy lioness when I see comments that insinuate otherwise," Hilaria captioned a photo with Ireland.

"Having a stepchild is a delicate matter. Especially one who is grown. I think my relationship with her has been so successful because I never tried to step in as her mommy," she said.

Hilaria voiced her admiration for Ireland and Basinger, who split from Alec in 2000 after seven years of marriage.

"[Ireland] has a good mother, who I have tremendous respect for... and I put myself in Kim's shoes: if my children ever had a stepmother, I'd want her to let me be number one," the mom-of-four said.

"When I met Ireland, I said to Alec: if she is not ok with our relationship, I cannot go further," she recalled. "Family is first and she needed to be ok with me. We have never had a fight or a bad moment. Nor have I with her mother. Ireland and I love each other and she knows that I am here for her."

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Hilaria addressed those who have criticized her for not mentioning Ireland in interviews discussing her children.

"Because I did not birth her and I never want to disrespect the fact that she has a wonderful mother," she explained. "But this will never take away from how much I love her, need her in my life, and think that she is one of the best things that has ever happened to me."

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I rarely address being a stepmom, but it is part of our family. I always want to deal with it with such care...so often you hear horror stories about evil stepparents and I wanted to make sure I did right by the family I was stepping into when I married Alec. I love my stepdaughter as much as I love my biological children and I become a mommy lioness when I see comments that insinuate otherwise. Having a stepchild is a delicate matter. Especially one who is grown. I think my relationship with her has been so successful because I never tried to step in as her mommy. She has a good mother, who I have tremendous respect for...and I put myself in Kim’s shoes: if my children ever had a stepmother, I’d want her to let me be number one. When I met Ireland, I said to Alec: if she is not ok with our relationship, I cannot go further. Family is first and she needed to be ok with me. We have never had a fight or a bad moment. Nor have I with her mother. Ireland and I love each other and she knows that I am here for her...and I know that she is here for me. I am inspired by her, look up to her (not just height wise 😂)...she gave her father away at our wedding, is the best big sister anyone could ask for...and I give her space. I don’t ever expect her to be anyone other than herself. As someone who loves her, my job was not to step in and take over...but rather respect what had been for the first 15 years of her life and then become a part of that, in a way that works for everyone. So yes, sometimes my language about my biological children does not include her. Because I did not birth her and I never want to disrespect the fact that she has a wonderful mother. But this will never take away from how much I love her, need her in my life, and think that she is one of the best things that has ever happened to me. Please don’t look for trouble where there is none. Love you @irelandbasingerbaldwin ...ps after writing this and using the word “step” so many times, I think I know why it is called a “stepparent” now 😂🤪🤔

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Hilaria married Alec in June 2012 and is parent to four children, Carmen, Rafael, Leonardo and Romeo, with the actor. Ireland discussed her bond with her step-siblings in an interview with Hello! in 2016.

"I'm more of like their aunt 'cause I'm significantly older than them," the model said.

"It's kind of fun just giving them advice," she added. "It's just fun to see them grow and they act like me already and I'm like, 'Oh God.'"

Hilaria announced this month she miscarried her fifth child with Alec. She reflected on grief in an Instagram post last week, saying she's finding a balance between sadness and optimism.

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