vowed this week to change their behavior as of the first of the New
Year.
But, if the past is any predictor, the treadmill will soon sit unused,
the dietitian's phone calls will go unanswered and the cigarette runs to
the gas station will gradually increase.
"Take credit for success when you achieve a resolution, but it is a
mistake to blame yourself if you fail," said Alan Marlatt, a researcher
on resolutions and professor of psychology at the University of
Washington in Seattle. "Instead, look at the barriers that were in your
way. See how you can do better the next time and figure out a better
plan to succeed."
According to Marlatt's research, 40 percent of those who achieve the
top goal on their list of New Year's resolutions do so on the first try.
Others often try again, with 17 percent eventually succeeding after as
many as six attempts.
In his group of subjects, Marlatt found that more people made
resolutions to start or increase a behavior --222-- than to eliminate or
decrease a behavior -- only 42. Of those studied 65 percent made their
resolutions between Dec. 28 and New Year's Day. The others made pledges
that they considered to be New Year's resolutions as early as the
previous May and as late as the end of January.
To be successful with personal resolutions, said Marlatt -- who has
studied the subject for more than 20 years -- have a strong initial
commitment to make a change.
He also suggested having coping strategies to deal with problems that
will come up and keeping track of your progress. The more monitoring you
do and feedback you get, the better you will do, Marlatt asserted.
Ingredients for resolution failure, he added, include:
Not thinking about making resolutions until the last minute.
Reacting on New Year's Eve and making your resolutions based on what's
bothering you or what is on your mind at that time.
Framing your resolutions as absolutes by saying, "I will never do X again."
"You do get to try again and can make behavior changes throughout the
year, not only at New Year's," Marlatt added.
One of the most important secrets to keeping those New Year's
resolutions is to take the process of change one day at a time. "If you
can do just a little bit to get going, soon you'll feel the positive
effects of the change," said Dr. Saundra Gilfillan, a Dallas psychiatrist.
"And that little bit of change can lead to long-term healthy habits
that last far beyond New Year's Day."
(Reported by Bruce Sylvester from West Palm Beach, Fla.)


