AgingCare.com surveyed more than 700 people taking care of an elderly parent or family member and found:
-- Of the 73 percent of family caregivers, who admitted to lying to the person they're caring for; 43 percent lied on a weekly basis.
-- Half who admitted to lying said it was justified because it either made their own life easier or it's for the elderly family member's "own good."
-- Only 28 percent, who lied said it was wrong and felt guilty.
Family caregivers are most honest about their loved one's medical condition and least honest about their own feelings: 65 percent lied about their own feelings, while 10 percent lied about their loved one's medical reports or test results.
The AgingCare.com Caregiver Forum provides an outlet for caregiver honesty; members can share their candid feelings or worries without condemnation, without guilt and without hurting the one they love.
For example, one forum member said: "People tell me how great I am for taking care of my mom and when they tell me this I feel worse because of the way I really feel deep inside. I want my life back."
Another member said, "I'm usually pretty compassionate but people who compare taking care of someone with dementia to taking care of a child should be whomped upside the head."
No survey details were provided.
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