"It is a struggle to pay the rent, let alone gasoline, car insurance and my daughter's school supplies," said the 41-year-old waitress. "But I'm grateful for the job because I like the people I work with and the customers are nice."
In 1995, Dunder, her then-husband and her oldest daughter moved to Michigan from Moldavia in Eastern Europe. "I didn't speak much English, so most fields were closed to me. Fortunately, I landed a job bussing tables in a restaurant where I learned the basics of the industry and improved my English skills."
Dunder, who is now divorced, has completed a training program at another restaurant and is proud of the attention she gives her customers. "If the first customer is in a rush, I get the coffee in record time. If the second customer needs extra napkins, I make sure she has them."
Like many tipped workers, Dunder has trouble making ends meet because of an obscure federal provision called the tip credit, which has established a sub-minimum wage for tipped workers at $2.15 per hour, or $4,333 a year for a full-time worker. Forty-five states have established slightly higher sub-minimum wages. For example, Michigan pays $2.65 an hour.
The federal full minimum wage is $7.25 per hour or about $15,000 a year for a 40-hour work week.
Restaurant Opportunities Centers (ROC-United), a New York-based national nonprofit restaurant worker organization, wants to raise and index the federal minimum wage for tipped workers to 70 percent of the regular minimum wage.
They say the hike is needed to provide a livable income. Tipped workers, the group says, are more likely to fall into poverty than those who receive minimum wage. Servers rely on food stamps at nearly double the rate of the general population.
No Food on the Table
"Unfortunately, today many restaurant workers who serve America its food cannot afford to put food on the table for themselves and their families," said Vanessa Faraj, chapter organizer of Fair Eats, an Atlanta-based organization founded by members of 9 to 5, a diverse, grassroots nonprofit organization that helps strengthen women's ability to win economic justice.
Servers--71 percent of them women and making up the largest group of all tipped workers--represent the seventh-lowest paid occupation of the country's lowest paid jobs, with a median hourly wage of $8.81, well below the poverty wage, the Bureau of Labor Statistics reports.
"Because their pay is so dependent on tips, servers' wages vary widely," said Sylvia Allegretto, co-chair of the Center on Wage and Employment Dynamics at the Institute for Research on Labor and Employment of the University of California, Berkeley.
Allegretto, who worked as a waitress for seven years, added: "The weather, the time of day and the customer's mood affect the tips in good times. During downturns in the economy, tips plummet because people eat at home or order less expensive meals. Servers are often required to split their tips with managers and owners, which is illegal."
Ninety percent of female servers are not paid enough to enjoy basic economic security, according to the 2012 Basic Economic Security Index, which measures the ability to afford housing utilities, food, transportation, child care, health care, emergency and retirement savings. For men that figure is 75 percent. The index is produced by the Washington-based Wider Opportunities for Women, which provides data on several female-dominated fields that for several years have been omitted from politically influential federal labor indices.
Dunder is now attending a culinary school and hoping to open her own restaurant. That could help her financial security some day, but for now it means she cannot work full time and can't afford child care.
"Weekly fees for after-school care can easily top $200 a week, which would sink my budget," she said.
To make ends meet, she has moved to a modest, one-bedroom apartment in a complex in Oak Park, Mich., where many Russians live and share child-care responsibilities.
Low Wages, Few Benefits
"Although the restaurant industry is one of the largest and fastest growing sectors of the economy, it offers some of the nation's lowest wage jobs with little access to benefits and career advancement," said Allegretto. "The federal sub-minimum wage hits women hard because they are the majority of workers in the restaurant industry."
The federal minimum wage has increased several times over the last 20 years, but the sub-minimum wage has remained the same since 1991. As a result, the sub-minimum wage's value has fallen 40 percent in real terms, Allegretto said.
Gender inequality is also widespread among restaurant workers. Female workers averaged $1.53 per hour less than male restaurant workers in 2009, according to the U.S. Census Bureau.
"Women, especially those of color, earn less, because they are more highly concentrated in fast-food and family-style restaurants than in fine dining restaurants where higher wages are found," said Jonathon Hogstad, national research coordinator of ROC-United, which was founded after Sept. 11, 2001, to help restaurant workers displaced by the attacks on the World Trade Center. "They are also under-represented in the industry's highest paying restaurant positions and overrepresented in many of the lowest jobs."
Lack of health care and paid sick leave are other major problems, added Hogstad. A survey by his organization of over 4,300 restaurant workers across the country found that about 90 percent of restaurant workers lack paid sick days and 90 percent do not receive health insurance through their employers.
"This takes a serious toll on women because female restaurant workers are more than three times more likely to be single parents than are male restaurant workers," he said.
Dunder has no work benefits, no paid sick days, health insurance or retirement. She receives health insurance for herself and her young daughter through Medicaid.
"As a middle-aged, divorced woman, I should be saving for retirement," she said.
Like many restaurant employees, Dunder's safety net consists of contributions by family and friends.
"I used to spend an hour and a half a day traveling by bus to and from work," she said. "Thanks to the car given to me by my sister, the trip now takes 10 minutes. My sister, who lives in Moscow, has promised to give me the funds to start my restaurant."