Happy holidays despite eating disorder

HOUSTON, Texas, Dec. 18 (UPI) -- Holiday celebrations focusing on food may pose problems for those with eating disorders, a U.S. psychologist warned.

Theresa Fassihi, of the Menninger Clinic, in Houston, said the desire to eat -- or not eat -- can become a psychiatric disorder such as binge eating. The health risks of eating disorders include heart problems, permanent bone loss and death.

"Ideally, family and friends should be sensitive to the fact that their guest or loved one has an eating disorder," Fassihi said in a statement. "Respect that, while the meal may be a joyous occasion for you, it may be stressful to a person with an eating disorder, especially one who has recently completed treatment."

During the holidays, Fassihi advised to:

-- Offer food as in "Would you like?" rather than "You have to eat some." Accept "no" graciously.

-- Never single out someone with an eating disorder. Don't watch him or her eat. Don't ask about what is, or is not, being eaten. Don't discuss weight. Even compliments on appearance can trigger negative images.

-- Suspect someone has an eating disorder? A dinner or party isn't where to talk about it but do discuss your concerns soon and encourage seeing an eating disorder specialist.