"It all happened very fast and it's a difficult situation," the source told the celebrity news Web site.
Messing announced last week she and Daniel Zelman had separated after 10 years of marriage. The former couple are parents of a 7-year-old son.
Chase also recently separated from his wife, Broadway actress Stephanie Gibson.
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