However, Bergman added she is determined to do what she can to save her nine-year marriage to the father of her two children.
"I'm not saying everything's okay," Bergman told People.com. "I'm still angry. I'm still mad. I am still hurt."
She went on to tell the magazine she and her husband are working on their issues in therapy.
"It took a crisis, it took infidelity to get us off our asses and work for what we want," Bergman said. "We do the best we can. That's all we can do."
Boreanaz is best known for his work on TV's "Buffy the Vampire Slayer," "Angel" and "Bones."